WHY SHE LIKES THE PROFESSOR THAN YOU
It has often been seen that girls like older men than guys of their age. The mystery continues to puzzle us till date, but there are a few prominent reasons for this, let us find out–
- SENSE OF SECURITY-
As we know, we are part of a community which is MALE ORIENTED, and girls are always considered feeble. We have provided them with security validated by the male. This has shaped them believing that men are the stronger ones and this inherent feeling have created a need for a stronger companion.
And this sense of safety is not just physical, but emotional, financial and otherwise also.
An older person is more safe about his own personality, his self, and also has reached a stable position in life, and this stability of self makes them a more reliable and better partner for girls.
- MATURITY IN RELATIONSHIP-
It is a known fact that girls get mature faster than guys, besides this their maturity is not just stuck with the emotional maturity, but other facets of life also. And an older person, who has experienced more life than the girl of a much younger age, becomes a kind of promising candidate who will not only understand her but is also capable of understanding life too.
So, this maturity gives an extra edge to the slightly older ones over the youngsters.
- FINANCIAL SECURITY-
So, this might sound like the cliche but it is true, again since girls have been kept in the safeguards of home more than the men, and also since we have and also are evolving from the generation where the men used to be the sole bread earner in the family, the instinct of a financially strong partner still attracts girls.
Furthermore, I am not suggesting that girls and women are anyway weaker than men, it is just the society’s construct and how young girls have been molded in this whole structure, that all this hold some truth on this context.
The conclusion to all the points mentioned is that older man is more stable, strong, self-aware and mature, and all these qualities make them more reliable, someone who can be believed upon, a more trustworthy partner for girls
It is not all about sex and fun for them, it is also about the seriousness and responsibilities in a relationship, which is a really good quality that attracts girls.
Be a better version of yourself, take responsibility for your actions and life, and be a caring and understanding person. Have fun, but also do not hurt the feelings of others, be mature, and be your best self, and you will be a better choice than any older competitor, and you can charm girls too.
Because remember one thing, that you will grow older and mature, but the old ones cannot be young and cheerful, full of hope kind of person like you.